Before I came to believe in Reformed Theology (again, just a reminder- the term Reformed Theology refers to the Reformation of the Catholic Church that began in 1517, this is NOT a new idea), this, and so many questions were a mystery to me. After accepting the truth of God’s complete sovereignty, and our complete death as a result of Adam’s fall, I had one of those “A-ha!” moments while talking with Drew. It was like the final piece of the puzzle was in place, and suddenly everything made sense. I said “That explains EVERYTHING!”
Now, I know there are some things that are just simply unknowable for humans in this life, and we won’t understand them until we get to heaven and can ask for ourselves, but I believe that there is a lot we should understand now… and can, if we have the right understanding of who God is.
Numbers 23:19-20 God is not a man, that He should lie, nor a son of man, that He should change His mind. I have received a command to bless; He has blessed, and I cannot change it.
1 Samuel 15:29 He who is the Glory of Israel does not lie or change His mind.
Malachi 3:6 I the Lord do not change.
Job 23:13 But He stands alone, and who can oppose Him? He does what he pleases.
God has a plan and a purpose for each one of us, ultimately for good… even though it may not always seem like it at the time. God is timeless, and though we are moving through time, He is looking down at His entire creation, as if it were a painting, and He knows every brush stroke that has already been put into place. If we could change things, and even one stroke was “off” a little, it could ruin His whole masterpiece. A sovereign God would not, and cannot allow that to happen. We all want things to happen in our lives to make things better for us, but what about the effect of those things on everyone else? What if Judas had been able to choose not to betray Christ? Or if Moses had been able to say “Thanks, but no thanks” to freeing the Israelites from Egypt? Or if Joseph had been able to give in to Potiphar’s wife? Think of how different history would look. Or would God have just gone to plan B? Or C, or D… ad nauseam?
No. With a sovereign God, there is no plan B. He causes good to happen for His purposes. He allows evil things to happen, then uses them for good for His purposes. If you believe that God cannot control man, cannot make things happen, and is always scrambling to figure out what to do next, when what he would have liked to have happened does not quite work out, and now he has to fix what we messed up, then why would you even call that a god?
Matthew 26:53-54 (Jesus speaking) “Do you think I cannot call on my Father, and He will not at once put at my disposal more than twelve legions of angels? But how then would the Scriptures be fulfilled that say it must happen in this way?
We cannot change Him, His mind, His plan, or His will for our lives.
Isaiah 55:8-9 “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”
The purpose of prayer is to communicate with God, but not so that we can talk Him into doing what we want. It’s so that He can change our hearts and minds, and ultimately, our prayers. If we are listening to the Holy Spirit, we will want what God wants, and we will pray for His will to be done… which is what we are supposed to do.
Matthew 6:9-10 (Jesus speaking) This, then, is how you should pray: ‘Our Father in Heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.
Sometimes, what we want is what happens. Sometimes it isn’t. Some would say it is because we didn’t pray hard enough, have enough faith, not enough people prayed… we just didn’t figure out the ‘magical’ formula for manipulating God. But the answer is that it wasn’t God’s will for it to happen our way. Does this mean we shouldn’t bother praying? Absolutely not. God commands us to pray, Jesus instructs us how to pray, and if we are doing it right, it’s not about getting what we want, anyway. We repent, although atonement for our sins has already been granted through the cross; we ask God to meet our daily needs, though we know that He has already promised to care of us; we pray for our family and friends because we love them; and we pray for God’s will to be done in our lives, even though it will be done, whether we like it or not. Through all of this, God grows us, teaches us, and builds a relationship with us. This is the purpose of prayer.